{"id":166907,"date":"2026-01-14T20:25:36","date_gmt":"2026-01-14T19:25:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/?p=166907"},"modified":"2026-01-14T20:58:59","modified_gmt":"2026-01-14T19:58:59","slug":"samobojstwo-na-koledzie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/index.php\/2026\/01\/14\/samobojstwo-na-koledzie\/","title":{"rendered":"Samob\u00f3jstwo na Kol\u0119dzie"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><br class=\"html-br\" \/><br class=\"html-br\" \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Jaki\u015b czas temu spotka\u0142em na Kol\u0119dzie kobiet\u0119, kt\u00f3rej m\u0105\u017c zmar\u0142 z powodu\u00a0 samob\u00f3jstwa. Kiedy kto\u015b \u201ew kol\u0119dowej\u201d rozmowie ma odwag\u0119 powiedzie\u0107 tak trudn\u0105 prawd\u0119, to ch\u0119tnie zatrzymuj\u0119 si\u0119, by d\u0142u\u017cej porozmawia\u0107. Wpierw, by pos\u0142ucha\u0107, a gdy jest przestrze\u0144 to r\u00f3wnie\u017c, by podzieli\u0107 si\u0119 jak\u0105\u015b my\u015bl\u0105. Mam du\u017c\u0105 wdzi\u0119czno\u015b\u0107 wzgl\u0119dem Ronalda Rolheisera, i\u017c nauczy\u0142 mnie dobrej nowiny dla rodzin, kt\u00f3re prze\u017cywaj\u0105 \u017ca\u0142ob\u0119 po \u015bmierci samob\u00f3jczej bliskiej osoby. Jedna z my\u015bli Rolheisera \u201dbrzmi\u201d w ten spos\u00f3b: zbyt d\u0142ugo b\u0142\u0119dnie si\u0119 tym martwili\u015bmy, obawiaj\u0105c si\u0119, \u017ce samob\u00f3jstwo jest powa\u017cnym ludzkim i moralnym upadkiem, aktem rozpaczy, czy buntem przeciwko Bogu i to niewybaczalnym. Jednak w wi\u0119kszo\u015bci przypadk\u00f3w jest to choroba, kt\u00f3rej nie wybrali\u015bmy z w\u0142asnej woli. Podobnie jak rak, zawa\u0142 serca czy wypadek, pozbawia kogo\u015b \u017cycia wbrew jego \u015bwiadomemu wyborowi. Z tego powodu nale\u017cy zaprzesta\u0107 u\u017cywania zwrotu \u201epope\u0142ni\u0142 samob\u00f3jstwo\u201d. Nikt nie \u201epope\u0142nia\u201d raka ani zawa\u0142u serca. Cz\u0142owiek \u201eulega\u201d mu. Tak by\u0142o w przypadku wszystkich samob\u00f3jc\u00f3w, kt\u00f3rych histori\u0119 s\u0142ysza\u0142em, tak te\u017c by\u0142o w historii, kt\u00f3r\u0105 opowiedziano mi na tegorocznej Kol\u0119dzie.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-166908\" src=\"https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/IMG_9334-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"757\" height=\"568\" srcset=\"https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/IMG_9334-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/IMG_9334-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/IMG_9334-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/IMG_9334-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/IMG_9334-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/IMG_9334-676x507.jpg 676w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 757px) 100vw, 757px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Jaki\u015b czas temu spotka\u0142em na Kol\u0119dzie kobiet\u0119, kt\u00f3rej m\u0105\u017c zmar\u0142 z powodu\u00a0 samob\u00f3jstwa. Kiedy kto\u015b \u201ew kol\u0119dowej\u201d rozmowie ma odwag\u0119 powiedzie\u0107 tak trudn\u0105 prawd\u0119, to ch\u0119tnie zatrzymuj\u0119 si\u0119, by d\u0142u\u017cej porozmawia\u0107. Wpierw, by pos\u0142ucha\u0107, a gdy jest przestrze\u0144 to r\u00f3wnie\u017c, by podzieli\u0107 si\u0119 jak\u0105\u015b my\u015bl\u0105. Mam du\u017c\u0105 wdzi\u0119czno\u015b\u0107 wzgl\u0119dem Ronalda Rolheisera, i\u017c [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"publishpress_future_action":{"enabled":false,"date":"1970-01-01 01:00:00","action":"","terms":[],"taxonomy":"","browser_timezone_offset":0},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/166907"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=166907"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/166907\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":166911,"href":"https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/166907\/revisions\/166911"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=166907"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=166907"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swmikolaj.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=166907"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}